In my latest podcast episode the arranged marriage we are reminded of how things use to be, how things still are in some places and within some religions.
Family’s can still have some deep pressure & pull on our relationships.
We still are guided by what people say and feel
About someone we are interested in instead of trusting our gut.
In todays society we no longer let what we feel guide us but take all the wrong things into consideration.
What do you do? How much money do you make? What’s your social status? What do you drive? Do my friends like him? Do they think he’s hot ? What part of town do you live in? How big is your 🙀
The list is endless and gets more ridiculous.
Having a female staff of over 14 woman, and working socially on mainly woman 5 days a week for the last 20 years I’ve heard it all.
I understand the desire to be keyboard warriors behind the dating screen apps it is unfortunately the way of this new world, but there’s nothing like seeing someone from across the room and feeling the urge to speak to them to get closer to them, or feeling the pull of someone’s energy in a group setting that magnetic pull that’s like electricity when they come close. That’s so intense you feel like everyone in the room can feel it. The beginnings of something you know will be great because your bodies are jiving before you have even spoken to each other.
I’m scared for this new love.
For the majority we are no longer subjected to arranged marriage and with that freedom we should choose for all the right reasons and not look to others, society, and how they will look on social media to guide us on who we love.
Love is rare, it’s hard to find and see true love
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